BIG RJ K

yesterday was anant chaturdashi and ganesh visarjan and today is the first day of shraaddh, my sister and brother-in-law performed his father’s shraaddh today, my parents shall be doing the same for my grandparents in the coming days…somehow i like this ritual of remembering and offering prayers for the elders in your family…

i am already at work, as we have some important meetings lined up,so i thought i should try and put down my thoughts before we start with them…

yesterday M was very worried about the fact that she has not told her present boyfriend about her previous two involvements, and now suddenly she is feeling guilty about hiding such a thing from him…the problem is that she seems to have missed a window of opportunity when her boyfriend confided in her about his previous relationships…and now how does she talk about something like this out of the blue? seriously , this can be such an agonizing decision if you are not fully sure how your partner is going to react about to it.personally, for me its imperative that my partner and i confide in each other about such issues. actually i don’t even think its such a big deal yaar…so what if you had previous relationships,whats in the past is in the past…why should have a bearing on your present life?

but to each his own, i think M’s major fear is what if she keeps quiet about it, and her present boy friend gets to know of it through some other source…though i feel, that if this is troubling her so much, she should sit him down and just confide in him…hopefully he will understand, and she will also feel lighter…

In ‘confessions with K’ there was a very confused ‘T’ who is dating this one guy, but now her ex boyfriend from school days is back in her life, and has asked her out…she is torn between the two and feeling a little guilty…she obviously doesn’t want to hurt either of them but is aware that whichever way she will be breaking atleast one person’s heart… she said she has even tried being rude and a little mean to her present boyfirend,thinking that maybe this way he will start liking her a little less and break up with her on his own, she told me this and we laughed because she also realised how juvenile she is being. for now she has decided to go ahead and meet her ex as only then will she be able to decide which way her heart wants to take her…lets hope woh zyaada der is tarah do naav mein sawaar naa rahe…

have to rush for now…

Love,

K 

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